Are you feeling Lost??Let’s find you

Before we start….

BELIEVE YOURSELF U CAN DO IT AND FOLLOW RELIGIOUSLY..ELSE DON’T BLAME ME

Let’s find u with a smile

Are you feeling lost? Are you feeling you lost your Energy, Confidence and Spark you used to have once upon a time? Over all you are feeling you are not what you actually are? That’s not so good but no worries it happens…Because it means you are at the edge. It means you are not going to fall, it means it’s time for you to fly. But if you don’t fly u will fall So let’s fly.

I am sure you might have googled or watched videos or read some articles to get out of situations, everything seems interesting while watching or reading or listening. But when it comes to reality, you are clueless, you don’t know where to start. Or you have not done all that and read me for the first time. If you're in exactly the same situation don’t worry. Let’s go with a story.

Once there was a guy, (it's just a story, not gender specific. Just a human specific). He was a very charming, enthusiastic and energetic person. He had a lot of dreams and also had the energy and passion to fulfill them. In school and college he was ahead in everything. He was also a gem in basketball and always dreamed about travelling. But then life moved on, he got a job, he got so involved in the job that he left his dreams and passions behind. As a result he lost his charm , energy , enthusiasm and everything . He got married and started to have family responsibilities as well.

The guy was not happy anymore. He was feeling lost. Somewhere deep down he was discontent. But something happened one day. The guy wasn’t feeling so good so he left the office at noon. But on the way back home he suddenly stopped in front of a basketball ground seeing college guys playing. He kept watching those guys playing for a while and then he started playing with them without realizing it was already evening. Finally when he was getting back home, there was some kind of happiness in him. He started to feel complete. there was some kind of energy running in his body. There was a visible difference in him even the family was happy to receive him that way. He couldn’t sleep the whole night. He picked up his old memories, looked at old pics of school and college. Next day he travelled to his hometown, visited his parents and childhood home. There he pulled out his old trophies, scrapbook of travel dreams and some personal memories. He also met some of his old buddies as well contacted many friends etc. After spending a couple of days with friends and doing the same old stuff, it was like a magical moment for them. ITs like he found himself back. There was the same energy, the same charm and enthusiasm. The guy realized that he never went for a dream holiday nor focused on personal happiness. He took a leave went to his first dream holiday and also joined a sports club to fulfill his happiness of playing basketball. He was so relaxed and content that he had clarity about what he wanted exactly in his life.

In simple words HE FOUND HIMSELF.

Lets see it this way. You are someone and you carry your energy and confidence etc. in a bag with you. Now you feel that you have lost it. But, technically you cannot lose that. It's just that you forget to look into that bag. That’s all.

Let's do it… Let’s consider, you are reshuffling your home and you find a box with old goodies of your childhood memories or old college days items. How will you feel? Really good, right?

Let's start there. Recall the time when you were energetic and you had a spark. Let’s go step by step.

• Take a day for yourself. Maybe a day off or a weekend just for yourself from everything.

• Recall what you used to like doing in those days. Maybe go through the old pics of those days, chat with your friends, or listen to songs which you used to like, or any hobby - maybe music, or games, or anything else.

• If you have any old items somewhere in the attic, pull them down.

• Recall your old memories… in fact, involve yourself so much that you feel your soul is traveling into those days.

• Do everything or at least something that you used to do in those days.

• NOTE: Don’t attempt to do anything where you need to depend on others because you might have a chance of disappointment.

• So, start by doing only those things where just you is enough.

• Go for a ride, or a pub - jump, dance, sing, no matter what. Bring your childhood or collage chap out, don’t be shy with yourself - that will be your biggest enemy.

• Take a pen and a book. Jot down all the things you like or even your small dreams which you couldn’t fulfill. Don’t feel shy even if it is like eating an ice-cream in the rain or buying a toy car.

• Make a checklist and start fulfilling your smallest, silliest dreams.

• NOTE: While relaxing, you can pamper yourself with a chill drink with an umbrella in it and relax. You can also watch a few old movies and dream about those moments.

• Bring all your feelings out and express them loud.

• The only key to bring yourself out is expressing yourself out so that you can hear it.

• Come out of your routine responsible big boss kind of nature. Be carefree,

• Feel yourself as some 20-24 year old guy… Remember, don’t miss your maturity. A mature man can be full of life too. That’s it.

• Live like this for a week or so.

E.g. If you like listening to old songs, eating ice cream, playing guitar, or playing jokes… Do all of these things daily. Feel that you are the same young hero guy who is a dreamer, achiever, go-getter, active like a baby. But, mature. Change your style of living - smile and stay chill. You will find a lot of change in energy shift. But, this time it will be better because you are mature, responsible, and full of life.

There, you got it… you just need to open the bag you have been carrying all these days. Never close it. Enjoy your life to the fullest. Most importantly, always smile & stay chill no matter what - you can be a life changer. BECAUSE NOW YOU'RE FLYING.