Perceptions…

Perceptions….. Can Play mind games.

Perceptions….. Can change lives.

Perceptions….. Can Make you Grow

Perceptions….. Can make you fall

Have the right Perception and Live happy life..Feelurlife

Despite the fact that a person lives with great instincts or consciousness, A person has a mind to think and mind always needs a perception. In good times, bad times or even to complete a small task, a person finds a perception for it to accept (unknowingly), which in other words is called as a reasoning to support or justify the situation or one’s behavior.

Let's get to know perception in a deeper sense. This time let’s not have a story, let's understand with a situation.

A lovely strong woman always dreamed of buying a house in a high-rise to see the world from a height. Finally she earns enough money and starts searching for the house. She talks about her dream to the realtors. Realtor A shows her the house in the middle of the city near her work and tells her “Madam your dream is coming true, you can now see the skylines, people and everything around; moreover its near to your work”. The lady gets happy..

Another realtor (Realtor B) shows her the house outside the city. From the top floor she can see mountains, lakes and all the beauty of nature. Here the realtor says “ Miss your dream is coming true, you always wanted to see the world from the top, here it is.. Nature is the real world, not the buildings and the crowd you see daily. Even though it's far from work, once you come home you will be satisfied that you are living your dream as the peace you get from nature is what counts”

Now the lady is happy but totally confused as she got two perceptions. Both the realtors used her dreams as a selling point and showed different perceptions to sell their house.

Now there is a third realtor,(Realtor C) who understands her situation and tells her, “Miss beauty is everywhere, It's in nature as well as in city lights. So decide as per your situation and your comfortable lifestyle, which beauty you would want to choose” Lady gets clarity. She sticks to the realtor C and finds a great place for herself.

Finally she is happy and satisfied. She believes the realtor C and recommends him to everyone.

Most people try to do business like realtor A & B. But only few do business like Realtor C, and those are the people who get real success.

Be careful.. Perception can confuse you or can play tricks with you.

If you want to do business, do it with the right perception.

If you want to live with clarity and want to be strong, stick to right perception; no one can use you.

Many times in life, you live with a lack of clarity and get stuck in a vicious circle of confusions and misunderstandings. You feel some in-completeness as if something is missing. Even though you get everything, you are not happy. Your mind will start to play tricks on you.

Lets see how

If the Lady would have chosen between Realtor A & B, she will be always dissatisfied. If she would have taken a house from realtor A in the city center: on one tiresome day when she needs peace, she would have felt “Did i miss the house from realtor B? Maybe he was right, I need a house which is near to nature’s beauty. Today I need relaxation and nature would have made me feel good. It would have meant some additional travel but, at the end of the day I would have been away from all the hustle and bustle. Realtor B was right, Realtor A tricked me” ( Mind found a reason with a wrong perception by putting blame on others) Mind played tricks

If she would have taken the house from Realtor B near nature: any day she got stuck in traffic or got late due to travel, she would have felt,” If I would have taken the house in the city near to work, I would have reached home early and enjoyed the city lights. Now even though there is nature I don’t have time to enjoy, What am I gonna do with nature’s view if I can’t enjoy it? Realtor A was right, Realtor B tricked me” ( Mind found a reason with a wrong perception by putting blame on others) Again, mind played tricks

If you allow your mind to play tricks, others will also play tricks with you. Be there for yourself, be strong in what you want and have clarity in your thoughts. Never train your mind to find reasons.

If you want to go jogging, just go. If you can't, just say I didn't go. THAT'S IT.

STOP giving reasons and form perceptions to make your mind feel good. STOP saying I didn’t go because of this or that reason, because your mind will always find reasons and you will fail to accomplish even a silly task like jogging.

Don’t Develop a habit of giving reasons and forming wrong perceptions to yourself.

You won't get anything except losing clarity in your life and your dreams. Then your mind will start playing tricks and the world will play tricks on you for their own benefits.

STOP using your mind for silly reasoning's. Believe yourself, you are smart, you are intelligent, you are strong, so please use your mind for right things. You will automatically start to form right perceptions with clarity in thoughts ( like Realtor C). You can and you will live a better life.

P.S. Every person's situation and thoughts are different. If you need further clarity, please feel free to reach me out. Because, your one success will be my success in the journey of feelurlife blog.